
Every day I meet successful, stylish men who open up to me and reveal that they're unsure how to talk to women - let alone approach or capture the attention of stunning, smart girls of their dreams. I like to call this syndrome...
"The gender confusion"
Today, women are becoming more and more masculine, powerful at work and increasingly aloof. They don't know when to be feminine and soft, leaving men with no idea how to act around these mysterious new super independent creatures.
If you are a single guy and this sounds familiar, don't worry. You are not alone. Even the most outwardly confident men are searching for the answers:
As a result, nothing evolves except a string of games followed by sheer exhaustion and ultimately, men escaping what could have been the relationship of their lifetime!
The good news is with a little direction you can make an impact and capture the kind of woman you have always wanted.
Ok let’s start with the basics. You don’t need to be tall, good looking, rich, blessed with a face like George Clooney or a body like Mathew McConaughy. Sure, we gals enjoy a bit of eye-candy as much as guys do. But if you want to know the truth, want we can't resist is adventurous, unpredictable men!
Women love men who are fun to be around, have a great sense of humour and simply make them feel wonderful!
10 things a single man must know to attract gorgeous, smart single women
If you want to stand out to the crowd, attract attention of the hottest ladies in the room and capture the heart of that goddess of your desires, here are ten things you need to remember:
Have a story to tell, interests, have an adventurous spirit, get amongst it, get out there on the water, into the gym, kayak, play sport, live life with passion whether it’s building things, music or making a difference.
Reveal each layer of yourself slowly. Let her discover you and your hidden talents!
3. Be good to your mum
Women love a man with good family values. Believe it or not when you take her to meet the family she is observing how you interact and treat your mother and sister.
When on your date, don’t sweat the small stuff! Getting stressed out in traffic, waiting for a table or waiting for your order to arrive makes you look like hard work and a potential rage hazard.
Women love a relaxed man who takes control. So keep the situation light and calm. A girl loves to hear everything will be ok.
We all have a past. There's no denying it. However, the past is the past for a reason. So before you divulge your history, and talk about how great or psychotic your ex was, ask yourself "Will this benefit my new relationship in any way?" Most likely not! Focus your energy on the new and look at what you would like to achieve. And never blame the ex or be a victim. It's a huge turn-off!
Women love a persistent man. Give up too early and you could risk losing out on capturing her attention. A sought after attractive woman will often have many men asking her out daily. By standing out with perseverance her attention will fall on you. I know so many women who won’t make the time to meet a man until she knows he is ultimately worth it - and persistence is a key indicator.
Think outside the square. Be fun, daring take a chance and be unpredictable.
Find out her passions. Is it a healthy lifestyle, the beach, the mountains, vineyards, the arts, music, travel? Remember her favourite foods and activities. As you date, surprise her with one of her passions she will love you for it!
Pretty self explanatory, but critical nontheless!